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James Watts's avatar

I was privileged to meet Terry when I was in New York in 2004 for a two-week symposium on writing about music and opera, sponsored by Columbia University. He filleted my offering in a way that was brutal without ever being mean-spirited (and, of course, he was absolutely right about what I had turned in). I lost my first wife a little before Hilary passed away, and we shared a few messages about the difficulty of navigating life alone. He was someone I always admired. Thank you for sharing your memories of him

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Megan Sullivan's avatar

Wow, this hits hard. I remember the early days of blogging and how kind he was. I didn't know him in real life, some exchanged emails, etc., but I remember him with so much fondness. This is a lovely tribute Sarah.

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Ed Shaw's avatar

Sorry for your loss.

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Cathy G.'s avatar

What a lovely, heartfelt tribute to a wonderful friend, great critic and fine human being. I'm so sorry.

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Maud Newton's avatar

You really captured Terry here. I’m glad you were neighbors and could see each other these past years, and I’m so sorry for your loss.

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Sarah Weinman's avatar

Thank you so much, Maud. I know how dear a friend he was to you, too.

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Maud Newton's avatar

I regret too often letting social media substitute for deeper contact, but he was a true dear friend. It’s so hard to believe he has left us so suddenly.

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Dru Ann's avatar

Sorry for your loss. What a lovely tribute.

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